There aren't much rules in relationships today. Some of the most important "rule" is to not lie or cheat. Both of the partners should be committed in the relationship. As opposed to the video we watched, if a guy/girl asks you out, it most likely means be their girlfriend/boyfriend. It doesn't necessarily mean go out on dates with one guy one day and then go out with another guy another day. It basically means go "steady" with one guy. There are some cultural rules of love out here though. In some cultural, you can't have sex before marriage, girls can't have boyfriends, can't date anyone outside your religion, or even in some countries, you can marry more than one person at a time. In the United States, you can't have more than one husband/wife at a time.
Back in the days, guys were the ones that asked girls out. They were the ones that had to pay for everything. Now whoever wants to pay, pays. It doesnt matter. You can even share it. You could pay seperatly if you wanted to. Back than, guys would have to go and pick up the girl at her house, then meet her parents. Now, thats not really how it goes. You can decide to go somewhere and meet up there.
Well, "nice guys" are expected to be very respectful towards the girl, and not try to take advantage of them. "Nice girls" are not supposed to cheat or lie. They are supposed to be very kind or something. They arent supposed to have many boyfriends.
As far as consequences go, I think that the girl would probably get bitched at or have people talk shit. She would be called a slut or something. But when it comes to guys, if a guy fucks a girl, its seen as a good thing. But if a girl loses it, she is seen as a slut.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
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